I’m not trying to be an asshole, it’s just I need motivation to move out.
With that in mind, let us begin:
1. He gets furious at the amount of toilet paper we (the girls of my family) use!!! Like WHAT THE FUCK?!
2. He gets mad if you trip and make only a high pitched noise. If it is a loud ass grunt you’re ok. But NOT any growling “cause it scares him”.
3. He likes to starve us and not buy food. In the last month I have spent 300 on food. We sometimes have bread. He doesn’t like to buy soy milk even though my stomach can no longer really handle milk.
4. He will let us run out of soda. Soda is my only caffeine source. I NEED caffeine. I’ve tried to stop but it is so hard when it’s cheap and makes the rice you eat 10x a week taste like more than just white rice.
5. He lied about our new house. My sisters and mom can’t have tv’s in their room because it would cost too much to hook up.
6. He referred to my brother as his step-son to his brother on the phone. I wanted to murder him.
7. He can’t remember my major or what I want to do.
8. He lied for a year about buying me a car and I could have saved up and bought one already. I didn’t do this because it could/would have pissed him off.
9. He own’t trust my mom with a credit card ever since she bought my sister and I lunch one time 8 or 9 years ago.
10. We must keep our cats in our rooms at night so he doesn’t get woken up. Needless to say they scratch at the door and cry so much that none of us are getting enough sleep.
11. He is cheap about every fucking thing.
12. He doesn’t listen
13. He is almost always condescending.
14. He interrupts everyone
15. He asks what you said when he enters a room even when the conversation was not directed towards him in any way.
16. He gets mad if you’re in anywhere he wants to be EVEN IF YOU WERE THERE FIRST
17. He gets mad if you eat dinner before him. Basically we HAVE to wait for him to eat before we do.
18. If you eat anything from 4pm to 6pm he will say “well aren’t you eating dinner?” or “didn’t you eat lunch?” Coming from an obese man here!
19. Inconsistent parenting throughout my life
20. It’s a daily effort not to fucking hate him.
21. My mother inherited a house from her friend years and years ago. He told her not to pay some sort of fee and I was like 4 or 5 and we got EVICTED.
22. He has evaded taxes before many many years in a row.
23. Because of this I couldn’t get the fafsa for YEARS
24. I can’t apply for medical *obamacare* because i would need his Drivers license as i am under 25.
25. He told my sisters they could move in and has been a complete asshole ever since/
26. He has screamed at me when a computer stops working. He then got mad when I cried. He then got mad when my mom got mad at him. Then he said I was spoiled. And for my mom to let him raise his daughter.
27. He never sees his now 30 something year old son. And hasn’t since he was 12. I can’t understand that.
28. He got mad when I wanted to see a psychologist. I was diagnosed bipolar. After i decided to stop seeing my psychiatrist, my parents both decided I wasn’t bipolar. So three years later when I wanted to find a way to see a psychologist he got mad. AGAIN. I still haven’t seen one since.
29. HE IS SO FULL OF SHIT WHY AM I STILL LIVING HERE? I’D rather have crippling arthritis (cause i wouldn’t afford rent and my doctor bills) and living in a fucking alleyway.